Throw out all the rules and connect authentically with men in the real world


Online dating is really appealing. You throw up a profile, choose your more flattering picture, and wait for men to come to you.

If his profile isn’t full of shirtless bathroom selfies and he’s relatively non-murderous, you’ll get drinks.

Then you have the same boring conversation over and over (and over and over) again. You’re never quite sure, after an hour, whether this is the right guy for you.

And the ones you do like never seem to call you back.

So you start following “the rules.”

Should you dress differently? Respond to texts slowly so he knows you’re not too eager? Laugh really loudly at his jokes, even if they’re not funny? (Like, at all.)

Here’s the thing with rules: If you have to use trickery to get a man to chase you, you’re going to get a relationship to match.

At Foxie, we believe honesty is the best policy. But we also know what a headache the dating world can be.

That’s why our Instant Connection workshop is our bread and butter. It’s the course we’ve been teaching for 10 years.

Instead of playing games, what if you could figure out, in under 10 minutes, whether a guy is worth pursing? What if you could give up online dating forever and actually meet a guy “the old fashioned way.”

In this workshop you’ll learn how to

You’ll also find online dating less appealing. Ain’t nobody got time for that! Why sift through profiles when you have the confidence to meet men in the real world, make a great first impression and connect in under 10 minutes!?

After this workshop you’ll live life with your eyes open, noticing people you want to meet, and successfully meeting them.


We start bright and early on a Sunday morning. Our events are hosted in San Francisco in groups no larger than 8. You’ll have two instructors and “foxes” who are trained in delivering kind, thoughtful feedback.


11:00am: What is attraction?

We’ll tell you what attraction really is, how it works and why it’s essential to your romantic success.


11:30am: Body language

From how you walk to your internal dialogue, your body language says a lot about you. Is your gaze up or are you neurotically checking your iPhone? What are your hands doing? Are you approachable? In this section we’ll practice projecting your vixen qualities before you even open your mouth.


12:30pm: Flirting

Being open and receptive is the key to flirting. But what does this look and feel like? Here we’ll practice open body language, facial expressions and how to banter. Banter is what we do with our closest friends—and when you skillfully banter with a stranger, you’re essentially saying, “I’m confident. I feel comfortable with you. You can feel comfortable with me.”

We’ll play games to get you out of your own head. It’s improv without the internal eye rolling.


2:30pm Style & Appearance

Before you freak out, you don’t have to dress like a Disney princess to be attractive! This module is all about highlighting what you love about yourself. Bringing that to light is the key to attraction before you ever open your mouth. We’ll talk about what your current style says about you and how to get that in alignment with who you really are.


4:30pm Engaging New People

Learn how to start a conversation, what to talk about how to bring playful banter into the conversation.


6:30pm Getting Guys to Approach You

Giving a guy the confidence to approach you is all about signals. What signals do you want to send? How do you do it? We’ll give you concrete openers you can use again and again, whether it’s at the grocery store or on the dance floor. –


7:30pm Let Him Chase You

Tips for driving him crazy (in a good way), plus when to express interest and when to be coy.


9:30pm Real world practice

Get ready to bring your newfound skills to life! We’ll go out together like any group of girlfriends on a Saturday night. We’ll head out to a few bars and socialize. Your coaches will hang back, offer support and demonstrate as needed.


Megan Merrill

I’m Megan Merrill and I’ve taught hundreds of men and women to date, and truly connect. I’m an entrepreneur, traveler and adventurer obsessed with how the people in our world interact.

As the founder of Foxie, I give singles the tools and confidence to fill your lives with meaningful relationships. Relationships that lead to killer sex, a walk down the aisle or a family of your own.

“I’ve never encountered an instructor who wants to see you succeed more than Megan.”

My superpower is identifying your juicy center. I’m perceptive, intuitive and obsessed with details to help you go from from insecure to engaging the world with confidence.


If you’re chomping at the bit to make positive connections to enrich the rest of your life, I want to meet you.


How big are the classes?

We keep workshops under eight people for a reason. Intimate groups means we have a lot of time for personal feedback. It’s like finding your balance on a bike for the first time. Your instructors will help you adjust so you experience first-hand what it feels like to get it right.


Can’t I just read a book?

Sure, we love books! Taking time to learn is the ultimate in self improvement. That said, if you only read and never practice, you’ll never get where you want to be. Would you read 1,000 books on cooking theory before ever turning on a stove and then expect to be on Master Chef? Didn’t think so.


What’s your cancellation policy?

You can cancel your reservation for a full refund up to 4 weeks prior to the workshop date. Cancellations less than 4 weeks prior are as follows:

  • 2-4 weeks before your workshop will receive a 50% refund
  • 1-2 weeks weeks before your workshop will receive a 25% refund
  • Less than one week weeks before your workshop will receive no refund


This workshop is a big investment. Is it really worth it?

I’ll let a past client answer this for me…

“Megan provides a platform that virtually guarantees success. I’ve since brought amazing new people into my social circle and am finally meeting the women I actually want to meet.”